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Letter to New York Times - Father's
Day 2006 |
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Here I sit alone
on fathers day with a broken heart |
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I just had a ten minute call
with my two beautiful girls, ages
6 and 9, which my wife started intentionally
alienating from me about two weeks
ago over a simple property dispute.
This is one of only about three
calls to my children my wife has
allowed in these past two weeks.
The judge has not discouraged this
behavior, as I hear they pretty
much support whatever "mom"
wants after the initial award of
"temporary custody" upon
filing of divorce. This then become
the precendent and living situation
for a year or two and it is
hard to reverse. Generally
when I call my wife just says
"the children don't want to
talk to you" without checking
and hangs up on me. I do this three
times a day hoping the kids will
see I am trying to talk to them
and call back. I have always
had a very close relationship with
my children and if this feeling
exists in the children, which I
doubt, it is something she
has created very recently. It is
easy to manipulate children though
later in life they will regret this.
Even my phone calls are now
at the complete discretion of an
angry ex-wife with emotional and
mental health issues.
A top world-wide expert has
rated me an "outstanding dad"
after spending a full visitation
weekend with us. I love my
children so much I would give my
life for them without hesitation.
I think most fathers feel this way.
Yet the court system denies me my
fundamental constitutional rights
with complete immunity for the apparent convenience
of judges and to generate more money
for lawyers and the state.
Federal courts will not hear
family cases and so there are no
checks and balances on the system
that are not controlled by the state.
It has also forced me into near
poverty due to over fifty thousand
in unnecessary legal and living
expenses.
The divorce system has become
a huge for-profit business which
encourages dissent between couples
to drive legal fees higher. It is
the only industry in the world where
dozens of people charging hundreds
of dollars per hour people stand
around doing nothing for their clients
waiting (in court) their turn for
one person who is paid $75/hour
(the judge). Has the judicial
system never heard of scheduling
time? Many of these people
are even billing two or three
clients for the same waiting time.
In any industry I ever worked in,
and I have been an executive
in many industries, this is
called fraud. In the divorce business
it is called standard operating procedure.
This practice quickly drains the
assets of the estate of divorcing
couples needlessly. Even government
officials have a conflict of interest
in most of their decisions. Some
lawyers admit privately that about
half the lawyers have the goal
of garnishing about forty percent
of the couple's estate in legal
fees before a settlement is reached.
So it is not just corrupt, but in
fact is a sort of criminal conspiracy
to defraud clients.
It may sound strong but the
fact is that this system is doing
intentional damage to children and
the bonds between them and their
parents for money. It destroys
the long-term relationship potential
of the parents too. Most men are
crushed both financially and emotionally
by the divorce system. I think this
harm might even be more than
by the divorce itself. Anyone
that says there is not sexual bias
knows little about this system or
has some interest in the status
quo. The current "winner
takes all" system forces parents to
battle and reveal the most horrible
things they can think of about each
other, and many also fabricate things,
just to have a chance to parent
their own children. This has evolved
into a truly evil system.
The supreme court has held that
the right to parent your children
is so precious that it can not be
taken away except in extreme circumstances
of real harm to the children. The
state can not step in except in
these dangerous situations.
Yet judges often award custody to
mothers by default in 15 minute
temporary order hearings where the
judge can not possibly learn the
situation, never mind know what
is best for the child. In fact research
shows they usually do this exactly
backwards to what is best for children.
Shared parenting is the rarest outcome
in these situations and yet has
been scientifically proven
best for children.
Exorbitant child support, often
three to five times the entire cost
of raising the child is the other
incentive and prize for the "winner".
However, the children lose every
time because of this structure.
Our legal system was design to be
adversarial to protect citizens
from government. In divorce it simply
decimates all the relationships
of the family. This system is completely
inappropriate for divorce, where
mediation and equal rights should
prevail. The cost would go down,
half the lawyers would be out of
business and generations of children
would be spared the proven harm
caused by being raised by only a
single parent. Children raised by
a single parent have a 93% higher
chance of divorce and do enormously
worse by over twenty key measures
like mental health, school, crime
and other measures of success in
life. It has been scientifically
proven, with over 200 research studies,
that shared parenting, with near
equal time with both parents is
far superior for children in the
long-term. Yet the band plays on
due to the huge money that is now
made by lawyers and the federal
incentives to state to drive child
support higher each year. The state
gets a dollar for every three dollars
in child support they collect, making
separating a child from one parent
a profit center for government.
The domestic violence tail is also
waiving the divorce dog, as men
are subject to "guilty until
proven innocent" restraining
orders that allow women to win everything
instantly when there has never even
been any domestic violence.
Fathers Day may now be the saddest
day of the year for me and millions
of other dads who just want to be
the best dad they can for their
children and are blocked by a dysfunctional
government bureaucracy. My
fatherhood has been stolen from
me by the state that I support
with my tax dollars. About three
hundred fathers of divorce silently
commit suicide every month due to
the irreparable damage done to their
lives. I can not imagine a
worse system than the one we have
today. Like most government monopolies
because there is no competition
everyone in control begins to make
decisions for their own personal
self-interest instead of that of
its customers (we the people). Nearly
everyone that has been through this
system agrees, yet the band plays
on.
The older I get the more
I respect the vision of our
founding fathers and what
they created in the U.S. Constitution.
The states are ignoring these
higher laws that protect our
citizens that judges must swear
to uphold above all others when
they take their oath.
If state family courts obeyed
the constitution this system
could not exist as it does today.
However, all the players ignore
these higher laws with complete
immunity. The laws are created
by lawyers, for lawyers. It
is time for change and shared
parenting is beginning to sweep
the nation. Talk to your state
representative and demand equal
rights and time for both parents.
You just might help save a generation
of children by making this law
sooner. The media needs to shine
light on this dark and harmful cartel.
It just may be our top social
problem today as it is harming
generations of children needlessly.
Happy fathers day to those
dads who are lucking enough
to still have access to their
beloved children in marriage
or divorce in spite of this
horrible situation.
With a 50% divorce rate
though it could be you next,
or a close friend. So call your
state rep today and voice your
support for shared parenting.
Contact:
Illinois Family Court Accountability
Advocates (IFCAA) Karyn Mehringer
(Freeman) and Sheila Mannix, 708-323-6040
www.illinoisfamilycourtadvocates.org
or Independent Federal Fund Oversight
Committee David Martin Price, 785-267-5132
iffoc@lycos.comorNational
Alliance for Family Court Justice
Liz Richards,
703-658-3543 lizgoal@aol.com
or Foundation for Court ReformYvonne
Allen,
314-965-1228 www.FoundationForCourtReform.com
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Source: Illinois Family Court Accountability
Advocates (IFCAA)
TXDAD
Umm...case you didn't
know it, these gals are all man
hating feminists...read closely
into the below [snipped] article
posted.
Then read the letter from Liz Richards
targeting Wayne Horn of the NFI.
making sure no money goes to support
any "true" fathers rights
groups" seeking to ensure "their"
faux fathers groups get the money
to run dads around and keep the
status quo, the status quo.
These people are very "SUBTLE"
in their appearances as advocates
under color of fathers rights, only
to be smoke and mirrors to ensure
no meaningful change occurs.
I have highlighted the important
"words" to strictly construe
them as they are. These are feminist
saboteurs who are out to stop meaningful
reforms and ensure lots of bureaucracy
remains.
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LETTER OF
LIZ RICHARDS TO WADE HORN NFI |
January 19, 2000
Wade Horn
National Fatherhood Initiative
101 Lake Forest Blvd.
Gaithersburg, MD 20877 |
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Dear Mr. Horn:
I have spoke to you and your staff
on several occasions about irregularities
occurring in the fatherhood movement,
which our group of litigating mothers
have documented and observed. Since
NFI will be a likely grant recipient
under proposed legislation, S.1364,
"Responsible Fatherhood Act",
intended to expand funding for fatherhood
"styled" programs, I am
asking Senate sponsors to obtain your
response to the following:
in other words, if you advocate for
PAS we will work to see you do not
get any funding.
1) As a prime clearinghouse and potential
federal program service provider for
fathers, which local groups do you
refer callers to for individual assistance?
What are the trigger factors for determining
appropriate referrals?
tell us who you work with so we can
make sure they get no NFI money also.
2) Do you verify any of the complaints
made by individual callers, or verify
the results they claim to have obtained?
What oversight do you have to ensure
that all local service providers are
compliant with legal and ethical standards?
the legal standard that custody goes
to mom 80% of the time.
3) What standards are in place for
ensuring the rendered services are
appropriate and effective?
4) What, if any, advocacy groups or
professional bodies representing affected
mothers have your consulted with to
ensure that responsible fatherhood
services have effective results for
mothers? Do you ever speak to any
of the mothers of the children involved
in the fathers cases you consult with?
LMAO!!
5) Are you aware of the Pedophile/Incest
sympathizer psychologists who are
closely affiliated with leading fathers
rights groups? Have you analyzed their
theories and implementations in domestic
relation cases? Are you aware that
an NFI staff member was e-mailed a
message describing this, which included
a link to a Family Research Council
report, which identified leading fathers'
rights organization who were associated
with these pedophiles?
6) Are you aware of false incident
reporting in family disputes and family
violence by litigating males, along
with retaliatory legal action against
mothers who complain about paternal
abuse or support delinquencies?
7) Are you aware of the currently
funded "fatherhood" styled
programs, advocated for and granted
to some of the leading fathers groups,
which they have been using to promote
the use of Pedophile / Incest methodology
in the courts and social services?
someone should do something about
this person richards as she is toxic
8) Have you ever received one complaint
from a litigating father, that he
was not allowed any visitation with
his children because he had made a
false allegation against the mother,
or had to pay child support of 1/3
or more of his income to a custodial
mother who 200% or 300% more money
than he earned? As an organizer of
litigating mothers, I have many such
complaints from mothers who have been
abused in the legal system by fathers
with "connections".
Does the NFI have any interest in
helping non-custodial mothers with
such problems? |
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Please for Gods
sake Identify Faux advocate groups like
Liz Richards |
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Sincerely,
Liz Richards
National Director
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