Leftists have devised
a simple yet amazingly effective formula
to engender social discord: break
up the family, marginalize fathers,
and then blame the whole mess on men.
The pattern can be
traced back to LBJ’s Great Society
which spawned welfare programs that
withheld benefits as long as dad was
around. Then came Roe v. Wade, which
disenfranchised fathers from the most
fundamental decisions involving their
unborn young.
Next, no-fault divorce
laws set the stage for widescale child
custody awards to moms. And finally
draconian child support programs sent
low-income dads shuffling off to debtor’s
prison.
Judging by Census
Bureau reports, this anti-father jihad
made stunning in-roads. From 1960
to 1990, the number of American children
living with their biological fathers
plunged from 82% to 62%.
Of course unfathered
children portend the continued unraveling
of the social order and the rise of
the welfare state. Leftists see nothing
wrong with that.
But now people are
catching on to the game plan and dads
are staging a comeback. State lawmakers
are passing laws that level the playing
field for divorcing dads. Congress
is weighing a $300 million bill to
promote marriage and fatherhood. And
most important, the precipitous rise
in fatherless households has finally
begun to level off.
Of course, this comes
as bad news to the feminist-inspired
Left. In their mind, every father
that is removed from their children’s
lives is one step closer to the matriarchal
nirvana. And the Left has no intention
of relinquishing its hegemony over
the social welfare debate.
So in August the
California Supreme Court ruled on
a child custody case involving two
lesbians and concluded, "We perceive
no reason why both parents of a child
cannot be women." Last month
the Public Broadcasting Service aired
a "documentary" that libels
divorcing fathers who seek child custody
as abusers and batterers. [www.ifeminists.net/introduction
/editorials/2005/1109roberts.html]
And Supreme Court
nominee Samuel Alito is now under
fire because - gasp! - he once argued
that husbands should be notified before
their wives obtained an abortion.
[http://news.findlaw.com/hdocs/docs/alito/ppcasey102191opn.html]
As we approach the
Thanksgiving season, we have reason
to be thankful for two recent publications
which affirm the abiding truth that
fathers are one of our nation’s most
treasured natural resources.
Just last week the
National Fatherhood Initiative released
the findings of a national marriage
survey. The report found that nine
out of ten Americans believe that
as a rule, the best place for childrearing
is a household with a father and mother.
Even more interesting, 97% of respondents
believe that fathers are just as important
as mothers for the proper development
of children. [ www.fatherhood.org/research.asp]
And now Senator Rick
Santorum has come out with a book
that outlines an ambitious agenda
to reclaim America from the Leftist
onslaught. It Takes a Family documents
how welfare programs have only deepened
dependence of the poor on government
largesse -- and along the way tweaks
the nose of Hillary Clinton’s It Takes
a Village.
For example, in 1965,
21% of all American children under
the age of 18 lived in poverty. Thirty
years and billions of welfare dollars
later, the number of American children
living in poverty was - guess what?
- 21%.
Add to that the rise
of fractured families, illegitimacy,
and the increased number of children
at risk of abuse and neglect, and
the failure of the welfare entitlement
system is beyond dispute.
Santorum views dads
as lead players in the nation’s moral
revitalization: "a community
that is short on fathers is almost
always short on generalized trust
or social capital."
Sen. Santorum is
especially critical of our gender-biased
divorce system: "It is one of
the few places left in our culture
where sexism is not only condoned
but virtually celebrated." Plus,
dads often must contend with ex-wives
who "often make it difficult
for the fathers of their children
to visit."
Santorum highlights
the epidemic of Black men who have
fallen into the clutches of the criminal
justice system. At any given day,
12% of Black men ages 20-34 are in
prison. "Think about what that
means: fewer fathers, fewer husbands,
and fewer male breadwinners,"
he laments.
If anyone who doubts
the failure of the Leftist social
agenda, recall the haunting images
of the women and children stranded
in the rising flood waters in the
aftermath of Hurricane Katrina. As
the levees melted way, government
officials remained oblivious to the
impending disaster.
So where were the
men? Married men had already whisked
their families out of harm’s way.
And all the others?
They had been casually cast aside,
reassured that their mothers, sisters,
girlfriends, and children would be
safe and secure in the government’s
social safety net.
Yes, it only takes
a village.
Carey Roberts |