To: FATHERS-L@HOME.EASE.LSOFT.COM
                                              Sent: Tue, 13 Sep 2005 13:35:10 
                                              -0400
                                              Subject: Improved analysis presented 
                                              yesterday in Worcester
                                              
                                                
                                              
                                              
  September 
                                                13th 2006
                                                
                                                Dear 
                                                Judge DiGangi and Carey,
                                                
                                               I think 
                                                we all appreciated your patience 
                                                and time yesterday for the federally 
                                                required review of CS standards. 
                                                I have attached and pasted below 
                                                a corrected and improved version 
                                                of the handout I gave you.
                                               The 
                                                mother's taxable equivalent income 
                                                was not shown as high enough due 
                                                to an error in the calculation 
                                                formula.
                                                
                                               The 
                                                reasons to reduce the child support 
                                                guidelines are very clear. We 
                                                are harming children and destroying 
                                                the lives of their fathers too 
                                                with this system.
                                                
                                               To 
                                                summarize the best reasons I heard 
                                                the guidelines are too high because:
                                               1. 
                                                Massachusetts is the highest in 
                                                the U.S. as a percentage 
                                                of income that already takes into 
                                                account living costs due to higher 
                                                salaries. Are 49 states wrong 
                                                and Massachusetts right? 
                                               2. 
                                                Three different benefits accrue 
                                                to the mother only that are hidden 
                                                and need to be included in any 
                                                analysis as follows:
                                                   
                                                a) Father pays all taxes (after 
                                                tax dollars are worth 50% more 
                                                than pre-tax dollars)
                                                   
                                                b) Disregard of $20,000 creates 
                                                incentive NOT to work
                                                   
                                                c) Mother gets head of household 
                                                tax status, when father is forced 
                                                to earn far more money
                                               I do 
                                                not believe the people who created 
                                                this guidelines understood this 
                                                huge hidden impact, or looked 
                                                at the father's position at all.
                                               3. 
                                                We are encouraging mothers not 
                                                to work and fathers to work under 
                                                the table.
                                               4. 
                                                We are not giving children enough 
                                                time with their fathers for proper 
                                                development and growth. Working 
                                                mothers would facilitate more 
                                                time with dad.
                                               5. 
                                                We are creating a welfare system, 
                                                and showing children, how to live 
                                                off the labor of someone else, 
                                                not be independent and contribute 
                                                to society
                                                
                                               The 
                                                result of the current system is 
                                                that the standard of living of 
                                                a mother is 81% higher than the 
                                                father when the father earns double, 
                                                and 41% higher when the father 
                                                earns triple. This might make 
                                                some sense when children are of 
                                                pre-school age and the mother 
                                                must stay home, but it make no 
                                                sense at all after that timeframe 
                                                is up.
                                                
                                                This 
                                                system manufactures "deadbeat 
                                                dads", drives father out 
                                                of the state and country and even 
                                                to suicide (9.9 times that of 
                                                mothers after divorce). The fact 
                                                is this system is harmful to children 
                                                as a result. Dad lives in a dump 
                                                and is unable to spend quality 
                                                time with the children to balance 
                                                out the female side of childrearing.
                                                
                                               We 
                                                need to take the money motivation 
                                                out of divorce. This polarizes 
                                                parents and hurts children.
                                               We 
                                                need to have more time for fathers 
                                                and shared parenting responsibilities, 
                                                allowing the mother to earn more 
                                                and set a good example for their 
                                                children, not a "welfare" 
                                                example.
                                               We 
                                                need to allow fathers to survive 
                                                financially and save for retirement 
                                                too.
                                                Lawyers 
                                                are the only ones who gain from 
                                                the current system and this is 
                                                at a huge cost to children.
                                               It 
                                                is an impossible and ridiculous 
                                                goal to think that the standard 
                                                of living of a family will not 
                                                go down after divorce. Especially 
                                                when mothers are encouraged NOT 
                                                to work. This fundamental flaw 
                                                in the expectation of this system 
                                                is a root problem.
                                                
                                                I understand 
                                                that the legal services people 
                                                only work with poor women, but 
                                                child support is not a solution 
                                                to poverty and high percentages 
                                                for all do not help here. This 
                                                just forces fathers away, underground 
                                                and into under the table cash 
                                                jobs, exacerbating the problem 
                                                further and harming to children 
                                                even more.
                                                
                                               I encourage 
                                                you to rethink this entire system. 
                                                It is clear that the people that 
                                                originally implemented it did 
                                                not understand the repercussions 
                                                on fathers and children that are 
                                                now clear. Child support guidelines 
                                                MUST be change downward in 
                                                steps that phase out the disincentives 
                                                that encourage capable mothers 
                                                not to work and live off the indentured 
                                                servitude of an ex-husband.
                                                
                                                Fathers 
                                                are banding together everywhere 
                                                now to fight this system. Next 
                                                year you will see many efforts 
                                                to implement shared parenting, 
                                                eliminate the abuse of restraining 
                                                orders as an offensive weapon 
                                                in divorce, a court watchers system 
                                                and other initiatives. These are 
                                                not symptoms of a successful system 
                                                but a symptom of an oppressed 
                                                class of people. Non-custodial 
                                                parents are not treated just as 
                                                second class citizens, but are 
                                                often treated as criminals when 
                                                they can not afford to live at 
                                                a minimal level and pay the amounts 
                                                ordered.
                                                
                                               I trust 
                                                more time and thought will go 
                                                into this process this time than 
                                                four years ago. The results are 
                                                very clear when a close look is 
                                                taken. The judicial system is 
                                                encouraging divorce and making 
                                                it a very desirable avenue for 
                                                mothers. This is ripping the fabric 
                                                of society apart and will hurt 
                                                generations of children. The family 
                                                courts need major reforms.
                                                
                                              Sincerely, Robert A concerned father 
                                              whose children have been kidnapped 
                                              by the state