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The state-of-the-art in what is best for children of divorce. Every parent, judge and family law attorney must view this video to save their children from the ravages of divorce.
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Dan Iagatta, a quadriplegic, is being evicted from his childhood home of 43 years. Beverly Boorstien held his trial without him while he was in a hospital bed after his accident. View thee video by clicking below.

Educational Videos

The Fathers Corner with Bob Norton
Child "support" or Child "extortion"?

  How judges are breaking the law every day Patrick McCabe. 

  The Fathers Corner with Earl Sholley Government Intrusion in families
  The Fathers' Corner with Andrew Steele Abuses of the child "support" system and civil disobediance to draw attention 1to it
  The Fathers' Corner
The Mass. Governor's Council


View a video on Parental Alienation which has become an epidemic and is damaging children and parents. PA is a sickness in one parent trying to drive the other parent out of the children's lives.

Fathers For Justice at Stonehenge - Flintstones Demonstration

Fathers For Justice Videos

In the U.S. about 300 fathers plus 30 mothers commit suicide every month (over 10 per day) as a result of the effects of the divorce system and the grief from the loss of their children, home, property and future income. Their lives are destroyed by the stroke of a pen from a judge who has no idea what he/she is doing and no constitutional right to do it either!

In Australia suicide is close to 450 per month, worldwide it is estimated at many times this, likely more than 1,500 per month or 50 men per day. This is more than 11 times the suicide rate of women of divorce! What does this tell you about our system?

The BBC News online 'Day in pictures' section carries the shocking image of a Romanian father who set himself on fire in Bucharest in a desperate bid to get custody of his son who is living in Spain.

Boston CustoTEA Party Rocks Boston
Hundreds gather and thousands were informed of the injustices being committed daily in Massachusetts "family courts". 
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         Here you will find over 1,200 pages of information helpful to people trapped in the broken, for-profit divorce system which has been optimized for lawyers and states, not children and families.

The current system profits from family destruction in many ways, many hidden including federal kickbacks on child support, federal payment for court employees and many other  perverse incentives.

Our mission is to help educate all parents and unite groups into a single voice to change the gender biased, unfair, money driven and corrupt family legal system. The "Divorce and Domestic Violence INDUSTRY" is out of control and is literally ruining the lives of millions of parents and children daily.  Buckle your seat belts because what you are about to learn is a bit unbelievable. However, you will find all the evidence of this corruption and incompetence here.

To eliminate this problem both parents MUST have equal custody rights in EVERY divorce by default, unless there is real proof, to a "clear and convincing evidence" standard, of harm to a child in front of a jury!  This is what the U.S. Constitution and most state constitutions say. These laws trump all state statutes under The Law of Supremacy. Therefore any judge or lawyer not doing htis is a civil rights viollation for which they have no immunity. However, judges protect judges and even federal judges are illegally dismissing lawsuits against these criminals!
The divorce system has become nothing but a cash cow and power machine for lawyer$, judge$ and other government bureaucrats.  This system hurts families and children every day for its own convenience and profit totally ignoring the fundamental rights guaranteed by the U.S. Constitution. It is an ILLEGAL  kangaroo court. These people have lost touch with "We the people . .".
Family courts today are not a solution for divorcing parents, but a hindrance to the process and very harmful to children and families.  Most state family courts operate unconstitutionally, without regard to the highest laws of the land by ignoring supreme court rulings, case law and the many fundamental guarantees of the U.S. and state constitution. Calling them "kangaroo courts" would be too generous as kangaroo courts go through the motions to pretend there is justice and due process - family courts often issue "judgments" without a trial or even an evidentiary hearing, as required by the U.S. Supreme Court to even limit parental rights.

Spouses and parent must work around the system and not feed it money. They must use mediators who are not lawyers and divide both children's time and assets fairly. Lawyers will bait you into fights and create an unequal playing field on purpose to generate legal fees. Some lawyers target 40% of your estate before they "let you settle". This is essentially a criminal conspiracy, fraud and anti-trust. It has become so common that they even think it is okay to do, when it is like a doctor injecting you with a disease so they can sell you a cure.

The Wall Street Journal reports that the average custody battle now costs $78,000! This is a $50 billion industry that destroys children for profit because all the research shows that sole custody is harmful to children (see Fatherless Statistics page on left for proof and sources of this research), driving up social problems and pathologies 14,600%. This is the #1 social problem of our time because it is the root cause of at least 20 other social problems including: teen suicide, mass murder, crime, drug usage, parental suicide, teen pregnancy and even over 50% of all mental health problems in the U.S. today. The divorce industry is essentially a criminal racket that is destroying society for its profit motives! Literally! 

Click here to view the entire Lawless Family Court Video series for free.

Judges generate "temporary orders" that almost always become permanent to lull you into the belief there will be "real due process" and fairness later. However, this almost never comes. They just take you to the cleaners financially and get you used to not seeing your kids about 86% of the time when 50-50 time is best for children and required by the Fourteenth Amendment for equal treatment under the law. Why? Because they want to maximize child support because they get kickbacks of around 23% on that form the federal government under a program called Title IV-D!

Most often orders are 100% based on your gender and income, not anything that is appropriate given the best interests of children. We know this is almost always near equal time with both parents, except in the case of a physically abusive parent or drug addicted parent.   Even fathers that are primary caregivers, who spend equal time parenting are often forced out of their children's lives.  In fact 40% of kids lose all contact with one parent in divorce! Usually fathers will lose contact with their children after divorce, resulting in many teen problems.  In many states, like Massachusetts, there is an order for sole physical custody around 90% of the time!  This has been proven by science to be the worst possible scenario for children. All 50 state judicial systems get kickbacks on child "support" from the federal government under this program called "Title IV-D"  totaling billions of dollars annually. If you believe these billions do not influence judges and policy I have a bridge I want to sell you. 

This type of behavior by the courts is by definition tyranny. It is technically called “Acting under color of law” and a civil rights violation. Learn how to protect yourself in our Lawless Family Court video series here. Abuse of the people by the court system is why many left England for America.  History is repeating itself.  The courts are hurting families for the financial gain of states, lawyers, judges and a spiraling government bureaucracy.  Basically it is run for the "insiders" not for the benefits of citizens and families. 

Today men are often treated like criminals in these courts, and not even believed, so that the judge can do whatever they want. Men are guilty until proven innocent as a man, and woman are innocent until proven guilty.  This is a system designed to enslave men and get a piece of all their income for 18 to 23 years for the government and lawyers. This is illegal and in fact an act of treason by judges because they are intentionally ignoring the constitutional law. This generates these federal funds by fraud and by pouring gasoline on the fire of divorce to feed this divorce industry over #50 billion per year! This is happening to varying degrees in all 50 states and virtually all lawyers (95%) participate passively or actively in this racket. 

On this site you will find over 1,200 pages of free educational material, legal templates, advice and resources from fathers and mothers who have fought to retain their parental rights against this sexually bias, corrupt and unfair system which is driven by money. We are not lawyers and cannot, and do not, offer legal advice.

See video on Abuse of Restraining Orders

Our mission is reforming the gender biased, unfair and corrupt family legal system. The divorce system has become nothing but a cash cow and power machine for lawyers, judges and other government bureaucrats that hurts families and children for profit.
These people have lost touch with "We the people . ." and their purpose.
They are all evil and complicit in racketeering.

Family courts today are not a solution for divorcing parents, but a hindrance to the process and very harmful to children and families.  State family courts operate unconstitutionally, without regard to the highest laws of the land by ignoring supreme court rulings, case law and the many fundamental guarantees of the constitution. This makes their actions unlawful und The Law of Supremacy which says the U.S. Constitution and civil rights trump all state laws. They are ruining lives and families for the financial gain of states, lawyers, judges and a spiraling government bureaucracy. 

Today men are often treated like criminals in these courts, and not even believed, so that the judge can do whatever they want. On this site you will find over 1,200 pages of free educational material, legal templates, advice and resources from fathers and mothers who have fought to retain their parental rights against this sexually bias, corrupt and unfair system which is driven by money. We are not lawyers and cannot, and do not, offer legal advice.

  Senator Creem Supports Child Abuse For ProfitCampaign to Remove Senator Cynthia Creem
Just conflict of interest? Or racketeering?

Its Time Legislators Started Listening to "We the People".

Facts on Senator Creem:
  1. She is a divorce lawyer who is also a legislator who works on and stops legislation that impacts divorce lawyers.  This is a clear conflict of interest.
  2. Senator Creem has SIX divorce lawyers in her family including her sister, mother, father, son, uncle and herself yet actively participates in preventing legal reforms and writes laws for this industry. This is blatant corruption and conflict of interest. in fact it is unlawful because she is participating in two branches of government at the same time which is unconstitutional. She is a criminal!
  3. By stopping equal parenting legislation she is acting against over 85% of her constituents.  Mass. Voters voted in 2004 overwhelmingly to pass legislation for equal parenting rights in divorce by default when there are two fit parents.
  4. She helped raise taxes 8 times during the state’s worst economic crisis in 25 years.  The Citizens for Limited Taxation gave her a 20% rating in 2009.  Massachusetts National Federation of Independent Business Organizations, Project Vote Smart gave her as low as 14% and high as only 44% ratings in recent years on business and consumer issues.  Mass Technology & Communication Council gave her a 40% in 2008.
  5. She does not support term limits.  She is a career politician who ALSO works as a career divorce attorney.  How can she do both full-time jobs without one influencing the other? Of course she cannot and acts in her personal best interest, not that of the families and children in the divorce system.
  6. It is unconstitutional to be in two branches of government at the same time for the very reason of conflict of interest. This is called “Separation of Powers”.
  7. She “advocates” for TRANSPARENCY yet votes against independent audits of executive, legislative and judiciary branches.
  8. She voted against the plan that would ensure health care providers continue contributing to costly childhood immunizations...obviously special interest over voter interest.
View a 2-page flyer on Senator Creem that you can
give to friends, family and neighbors.

We now know that sole custody is child abuse. Anyone that supports the current system, which generates about 90% sole custody, is either ignorant or evil. Call your legislator at (617) 722-2000 and ask them to support "Equal or Shared Parenting" for default equal parenting rights without spending an average of $78,000 on an unneeded custody battle.

Videos:    Father For Justice in Action     Stonehenge
Officials Acting under "Color of law" have no immunity

Family Court$ Have Become a SCAM for Lawyer$ to plunder the estates of divorcing couples using children as bait!

In 2004 85% of MA voters voted for Shared custody! Why isn't it law? FOLLOW THE MONEY! The Judiciary Committee, which has so far STOPPED Shared Parenting legislation and the will of the PEOPLE, is loaded with  lawyers who make a fortune on custody battles!

The pain inflicted unnecessarily by "family" courts is indescribable. Over 330 parents commit suicide every month in the U.S. alone, and over 1,500 worldwide, as a result of the vicious and unethical treatment doled out by "family courts". Families are driven into bankruptcy, foreclosure and mental breakdowns by these these kangaroo courts with incompetent and overloaded judges and greed lawyer$ who consider it their job to "destroy the other side".   Of course, the victims are mainly the children, who most often lose one parent for the benefit of the other. Over 40% of divorced children lose total contact with one parrent due to this adversarial, money driven system.  It is the #1 social crisis of our time because it is cdriving  about different social pathologies in our children.   This is MADNESS and against U.S. Supreme court law. So how and why does it exist? Follow the MONEY!

Parents are destroyed by the kidnapping of their children, demands to pay ransom (child "support"), financial rape by lawyers and the state to generate federal kickbacks that build staff and government. Massachusetts alone receives over $550 million in federal funding each year to support and build the divorce industry so it can destroy families further. They throw parents in jail for not obeying impossible and illogical orders. These courts are operating unconstitutionally, unethically and solely for the profit of lawyers and the state. They must be either reformed or completely abolished.

Everyone in Massachusetts is becoming aware of this incompetence and the corruption which is a government driven holocaust perpetrated on families and children. Fathers-4-Justice  and over 100 other organizations have formed to drive change. See more at: F4j.US

Watch a video on the insanity of Child "support" system

See video of Boston CustoTEA Party Protest
For more videos and information on Fathers For Justice CLICK HERE

Massachusetts Gets Over $550 MILLION Per Year in Federal Kickbacks for awarding SOLE-CUSTODY! This is a CRIME against CHILDREN, parents and society!

Our Kids Are Everything To Us!

Shared parenting would take the money motivation out of the divorce BUSINESS that is making lawyers rich at a huge cost to divorcing families and children.  It would take the HUGE profits out of custody battles for mothers, judges, states and lawyers. Husband and wife are intentionally pitted against each other with HUGE financial and custody motivation. The only fair solution is equal rights and equal responsibilities unless a parent is PROVEN unfit, or harmful to a child in some way in a court of law by a JURY.

86% of Massachusetts voters voted for Shared Parenting in a non-binding referendum.  0% of legislators have done anything about it!
Change is Coming!  Justice is Coming!

Click for new report on damage Violence Against Women Act is causing to families

The Family Courts are Broken, Corrupt and Completely Unconstitutional! 
They are all about the MONEY, POWER and EGOS, not our children!
"Best Interest of the children" is a lie, it is all about "best interest of the lawyers" and the easiest solution for judges driven by decades of sexual prejudice and MONEY.

This web site is full of the proof of these statements from many sources. It might sound unbelievable, as it was to me before I was abused, ravaged and railroaded by this system, but judges are breaking the law every day in nearly every case in some way. There is no real accountability or real oversight.
Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely!  There is no better example than today's family court judges.

Family courts still live in the past with enormous sexual bias. They use this bias as an excuse to generate huge revenue for lawyers by awarding 87% custody to mothers and about 13% to fathers most of the time. They generate as much animosity as possible between mom and dad to drive legal fees to 5-10X what they should be.  This generates hundreds of millions of dollars in kickbacks from the federal government to support the judicial system.  Then loving fathers have to spend a fortune to fight to get these rights back that should never have been taken away. They bury you in ILLEGAL orders and appeals process.

Fathers want more time with their children and this is now proven by all the most recent scientific research to be better for them too! Mothers should be required to provide equal financial support and given equal time and responsibility unless this is otherwise agreed by the separating parties. 


1) Shared Parenting Legislation REQUIRING EQUAL RIGHTS for both parents in divorce, unless a jury trial decides this would be harmful to the children
Change in restraining order laws that abuse men far more often than they protect women by taking away their children, home and income when ever a woman says the word "fear". Today all men are guilty of domestic violence until proven innocent due to a decade long propaganda campaign by radical women's groups. Government figures say domestic violence exists in only 0.5% of all homes but it is claimed in a large percentage of divorces for unfair advantage.
Family Law Reform including full accountability for judges who break the law and their oath of office every day by being prejudice against (mainly) fathers. The U.S. Supreme court says that parental rights can NOT be limited without "clear and convincing evidence" that a parent is UNFIT.

The family law system is clearly sexist, unfair and unconstitutional, but lawyers, judges and states see a $250 Billion per year power and money train and continue obsolete traditions. In a world where women have equal earning power and should have equal responsibilities too alimony is basically obsolete except in extreme circumstances.

See Your Constitutional Rights
to Be a Parent

For the complete
U.S. Constitution Click Here

Sample Memorandum of Law
for Custody Battles

Save a fortune in legal fees by representing yourself and making arguments your lawyer will refuse to make because they do not want to upset this massive money driven conspiracy and the judges.

Today men in divorce are forced away from their children, under penalty of jail, and forced to continue what they have done for their wives during the marriage - pay "child support",. This is really "child extortion" because it is ransom for kidnapped children who we want to support directly in our homes.  It is "child extortion" also because it is based on your income, not the actually cost of raising a child. It can often be 4 to 5 times the actual cost of raising a child!  It is therefore nothing but alimony hidden in these ordered amounts.
The ex-wife most often gets the children 85% of the time and is required to do nothing for the husband after the divorce. These standards are applied only to men, like "imputed" income (non-existent income invented by judges to drive up child support numbers). Why because states get  federal kickbacks for higher child support! 
Additionally this creates a HUGE financial incentive for the wife to say bad things about the husband, alienate the children from dad and covet them to protect this undeserved financial income source. Why? Because the federal government offers UNCONSTITUTIONAL INCENTIVE payments to states of BILLIONS of dollars for INCREASING child support each year - creating a huge conflict of interest for judges and other state and judicial bureaucrats.

Today there are 60,000 government employees are tracking parents of divorce. This is 13 times more than drug enforcement agents!
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Fathers show their love and support by earning money and this is immediately used against us in divorce court as the reason to take away our children and to order unfair child support payments. These are often 5 to 10 times the actual cost of raising a child and drive many men to suicide, exile, bankruptcy and also trap them in jail permanently for an inability to pay.

"It is sad comment that the public is so uneducated, unconcerned and blinded to the TRUTH by the media, and that the Judiciary of our once great Nation has been allowed to sink to these depths. And while I say that the conditions that exist today can be laid at one doorstep, that of the Judiciary, I must ultimately say that the fault really lies at our feet, We the People, for it is We the People who have allowed the foxes to guard the henhouse."

Robert H. Bork, Judge,
Supreme Court Nominee &
Professor of Law

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